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陈保才老师经典语录!千万人疯转收  

2014-09-03 12:30:00|  分类: 默认分类 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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陈保才老师经典语录!千万人疯转收藏!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       1、爱情从来不死,死的是你的激情!当爱情激情的潮水褪去,我们才知道谁是真心的爱人,谁能真正和我们走一辈子!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:不要害怕流年,不要担心平淡,那正是我们的机会!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       2、爱情是一个人的事,婚姻却必须是两个人的事,甚至是两个家族的事!除了处理好大家庭七大姑八大姨的关系,还要处理好原生家族的印记,心里的遗痕,避免负面情绪的影响!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:找个原生家庭幸福的人多么重要!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     陈保才老师经典语录!千万人疯转收 - baocai99 - 专栏作家陈保才

  3、恋爱是婚姻的坟墓!恋爱与婚姻有本质的区别,不要用恋爱的那一套来评价婚姻!当两人关系发生实质性的变化,你怎能还期望他像过去一样对你?唯一的方案是:找到适合当前的相处模式!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:感情瞬间变化,你要因时而变!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       4、吃到一起才能爱到一起!这是一定的!人生说白了就是吃喝睡、交流碰撞!如果都不能吃到一起,那矛盾就会增多,两人的甜蜜度也会降低!甚至可能由此分手、离婚!吃是头等大事,谁能错过?!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:爱在味蕾深处!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       5、拴住男人的胃未必就能拴住他的心!美食谁都可以做、也许大厨师傅都比你做的好吃!应酬太多,他也很少在家吃饭!关键是要修炼一种味道、让他终生迷恋你的味道!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:恋上你的味儿                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       6、细节决定爱情的成败!比房子车子票子关键多了!可能你没意识到,但很多分道扬镳都败在细节上!人们分手、离婚的主要原因都是生活细节受不了!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:细节给力 爱情得意!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       7、我们每个人都在寻找安全感、那是因为我们内心脆弱,力量微弱!如果我们能修炼自己的智慧、强大自己的内心,我们对安全感的期望便会降低!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:做最强大的自己!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       8、评价一段感情是好是坏,有个简单的标准,可以看和他在一起的时候,自己时否变得更快乐,更幸福,是否比自己一个人的时候更开心!如果没有,赶紧离开他!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:不管单身与否、快乐最重要!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       9、爱是交流、分享、给予,但爱也必然会让人索取、有所希冀,不要责怪对方贪图你的付出,因为他也需要安全感,也需要归宿,因此,在给予的时候先付出、在付出的同时也获得、这是相辅相成的!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:任何                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       单方面的付出或给予都是不明智的、注定失败的!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       10、时间是最宝贵的!一个人爱你,不仅看他给多少钱、送你多少礼物!那是最浅薄的!如果我有十个亿,给你九亿又如何!都给你又如何!反正我还能挣!关键是、他的心是否再你这,他是否愿意经常待在你身边!他是否把有限的生命用来陪你、关心你,和你交流、感受你的细微点滴!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       启发:在一起、最了不起!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         陈保才老师经典语录!千万人疯转收 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